[Fengzi’s marriage easily causes three major injuries to women]
With the opening up and tolerance of society, Fengzi’s marriage is gradually accepted by everyone, and more than 30% of singles think that Fengzi’s marriage is no big deal.
From a gender perspective, men are far more optimistic than women, 33.
9% of men think that the marriage of Fengzi is a good thing for double happiness, 40%.
9% of women worry that the marriage of Fengzi may lay a hidden danger of unhappiness.
Fengzi’s marriage hurts women in three major ways: First, the man’s intentional shrinkage in the gift will create a two-way path for both parents.
People who have been married know that Caili is a stumbling block on the road to marriage. Many couples are gifted by Caili and eventually part ways.
Therefore, the two families will fight against each other around Cai Liming.
The mentality of the man and his parents is simple: if you can redeem some gifts, you will redeem some gifts.
女方及其父母心态也能理解：女方认为父母养育我二十多年，马上就嫁出去了，要趁机为父母‘赚’一把，算做尽孝钱;女方父则认为，我闺女将从此To have children for the son-in-law’s family, and the salary of the daughter-in-law will also become the financial income of the son-in-law’s family. At the key point of marriage, son-in-law needs to repay the hard work of raising a girl for more than 20 years. If you miss this village, you will not have this shop.
A cold interpretation of marriage from a legal perspective: the contract.
Therefore, since marriage is a legal transaction, it is destined to involve the interests of both men and women and their parents.
Originally, it was easy for the parents of both parties to bargain. If the marriage of Fengzi was allowed to take place, the women and their parents would be very passive in bargaining.
Worst outcome: Both parents look at each other and the woman has a passive abortion.
Even if the woman seeks for the children’s committee in the stomach, the parents of both parties will form a beam because of the color gift, which will bring many obstacles to the healthy development of marriage.